| Tips to Parents |
- Don't insist on a party. If you suggest it and your
teenager says no, cease and desist. Most teens will ask for a party when they are ready to
have one.
- Let the teen plan the party, invite guests, buy food, cook
& serve, & occasionally finance it.
- Teens are looking for a party that is not too sophisticated,
yet not "kid stuff".
- Music is very important, but ice breakers & games are
needed to fill in. At thirteen, emphasis is on games & food. At eighteen, it's music
and talk.
- Food should be plain and plentiful. Served in grown-up
fashion-buffet-style. Teens also say it's fun to cook at the party too.
- Teens prefer to have an adult about, but don't want to be
watched too closely. Take your cue accordingly.
- Firm understanding must be made to Little brothers and
sisters that they must be on their way.
- Always say yes to a party. The teens have fun; you keep in
touch with their doings and their friends. And even from behind the scenes you can share
in the fun.
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| Tips to Teens |
- This is your party to plan and execute. But play it smart
and let your parents into your confidence and into your plans.
- An outdoor party is best (weather permitting). Manners,
clothing, serving are more relaxed--more fun.
- Serve buffet style--indoors or outdoors.
- Guests like to help cook, so schedule it as one of the
evening's activities.
- Six to Eight couples are an ideal party.
- Invitations should be considered. A written invitation
spells party with a capital "P", but it may be oral. Be sure to include the
curfew hour.
- In making a guest list, don't select a lot of mediocre
damsels so that you can outshine them. Don't select to many more males than females.
- If you have a cancellation, don't be embarrassed about
calling the last minute to invite someone else.
- Feel free to invite a boy or girl you've never dated. Just
treat them impartially. If you can't round up more boys than girls, plan a picnic or other
group activity.
- Decorations? It's up to you when it's a small, informal
party. For a big affair at home, club or school, go all out with crepe paper & such.
- A good two- or three-hour party is more fun than a
long-drawn-out, slightly dull affair.
- It's music and more. Borrow Cd's but mark them to be sure
that they get home.
Partytime:
- Welcome your guests at the door "in person,"
without any apologies or explanations.
- Direct them to a definite spot where they can deposit coats.
- Introduce your quests to your parents and to each other.
- Gate crashers? Be firm, but pleasant. "I wish I could
ask you to stay, but there just isn't room." If they still persist, call Mother or
Dad to get the point over.
- Start with an icebreaker right away.
- Prevent havoc by having all breakables out of sight. And
keep music low.
- If party seems to sag, start another game to rearrange
people. Or bring on food.
- If you see some folks gathering in a faraway corner, food or
a game will come to the rescue. Keep room well lighted, too.
- To prevent wallflowers, organize games and trick dances that
involve everyone.
- If it's a sit-down dinner, break up couples; it does a lot
for conversation.
- Don't serve refreshments so late that guests overstay the
curfew time because they feel they mustn't eat and run. If some go and some stay, just
invite the stayers to help with the clean-up chores.
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| Party Themes For Teens Chinese
Japanese Parties
Sports
Safari
Hawiian
/ Luau
Rock
N Roll
Hippie Stuff
Pirate Party
Hollywood / Movie Themes
Casinos/ Gambling
Fiestas
Country Western Style
Disco Style |
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- Pie Supper - Invitations are circles of tan card stock cut into pie-shaped
wedges. With dark brown paint, make a fluted edge on each "crust". With
scissors, make slits to let "steam" escape. Write time and place on reverse side
of wedge. Pin each wedge to small paper plate. Of course the menu is pie, and have
a spy, so that the one eating the most wins a prize.
- Pancake Parade - Great after a slumber party. Get up,
you sleepyheads; this is a morning party. If you perfer, make it late a late evening
affair. Whatever the hour, the party's in the kitchen. For invitations, send miniature
skillets, with a tag attached stating details.(Or use round coasters to resemble pancakes,
and write details on them. Borrow extra griddles so that the pancake flipper can keep up
with the demand. Have several types of pancakes: banana, pecan, buckwheat & etc.
Different types of syrup: maple, strawberry, raspberry & etc. Whipped cream for
topping. Hot cocoa.
- Magazine Party - Here's a party with it's own
entertainment. Guests come dressed as title of a favorite magazine; a prize for best one.
For invitations, just paste front cover of a magazine onto piece of white paper; with
marker write details on reverse side.(or cut each of 8 magazine covers (of same size) into
8 squares. Onto each piece of white paper, paste a square from each magazine.) Pin
magazine covers to tablecloth. For refreshments, reproducing a tempting dish shown in a
magazine color photograph. For games: Unscramble Mixed-Up magazine titles. Identify
Trademarks - Cut 25 trademarks from magazines, paste on cardboard, then number 1 to 25.
Give a sheet of paper & pencil to each quest. Ask guests to number paper 1-25. Show
trademarks, one by one; let them jot down manufacturer beside correct number. Prize goes
to highest score.
- You Go Your Way and I'll Go Mine - This is an idea
for an after-movie snack. The gang splits up, and each person goes to the movie he'd like
to see most. About 11 P.M. everyone meets at your place for: Soup & Blockbusters
(Sandwiches).
- On-the-Go Party - This is a co-operative affair.
Everyone brings a prearranged fee and meets downtown. Hostess has planned two or three
events--roller skating, a ride on a bus the gang doesn't usually travel on, ping-pong or
darts in somebody's basement, Pop and Pizza at Pizza Piazazz, (Choose events to suit your
locality.) Nobody knows plan of events except host or hostess.
- Doughnut-Dunking Time - This party idea was borrowed
and adapted from New Orleans. First serve "poor boy" sandwiches with coffee or
hot cocoa. Then bring in a bowl of doughnuts--packaged ones, reheat in oven or automatic
deep-fat-frying kettle. Have wooden bowls of granulated sugar--one for each guest or two.
Everyone dunks his hot doughnuts in the sugar, a la The morning Coffee House in New
Orleans French Market. And, of course, replenish the coffee or hot cocoa.
- Victorian Formal Dance at Home - Have guests come
dressed in Victorian Clothing. The music is the most important item in your budget. Skimp
on everything but that. Let the invitations be worded formally, but not necessarily
printed. Decorations can be the same as those listed in the Sweet Sixteen Party except use a Victorian Design wallpaper to
make fans. Let younger brothers & sisters open the door and attend your cloakroom. You
and Mother greet the guests. When the guests arrive welcome them with soft background
music and a full punch bowl to be available throughout the evening. Have a buffet supper
at midnight, perhaps. Remember that gentleman serve ladies. Little extras: good
ventilation, good lighting, a dressing room for girls complete with powder puffs, and one
for fellows with a mirror to straighten their ties. Plan on a Paul Jones
very early in the evening plus novelty dances. Father's responsibility is to dance with the
ladies that haven't been asked, or to suggest that a nearby gentleman do so.
- "This is Your Life" Party - A party for a
special friend of long standing, who is moving away or going to college. Make a recording,
"This Is Your Life," complete with voices of friends, school-teachers, and so
forth. Let the school song be the musical background. Visit our graduation ideas page for details on having a "This is
Your Life" Party.
- House-to-House Party - A progressive party where a
food course is consumed at each house visited.
- Misfit Party - Dress: Wear combinations of clothing
ordinarily not worn, as bathing suit with furs. Give prize to the most original outfit.
- Platter Dance - Blast from the past! Hang up a few
dozen records (visit an antique store or make from back poster board)--on walls of your
party room. Serve: cola drinks, platter cookies. Frost round cookies with chocolate
frosting, with circle of white in the center. With cake decorator, print name of
"record" on each. Play
50s music for dancing. Visit our 50s theme page for other decorations and party items.
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| Sweet Sixteen Party |
| Celebrate a sixteenth birthday with
this coming-out party. Make it sweet, not to sophisticated. Sixteen guests is
perfect.
For invitation send a red rose; a little card giving
details, tied to stem.
Cover table in red
top with red net, gather each corner with a red ribbon bow. Tuck in roses. Accordian
fold napkins as fans and tuck in roses. Add the ease and
convenience of Sweet Sixteen paper goods to your party. They allow you to save time
and money while adding color and excitement to your table.
Decorate using roses & fans. Make fans from paper
(wallpaper works great) by accordian pleating paper, turn up about 1/3 at bottom and tie
with red ribbon. Tuck in a few red roses. Tack up here and there, and everywhere in party
room.
Menu: Strawberry Ice Cream, Heart Shaped Sandwiches,
Pink-frosted cupcakes, covered with coconut ( Or, make a big cake, surround with a garland
of roses, top it with a doll whose dress is identical with that of the guest of honor,
Miss Sweet Sixteen.
As soon as guests arrive greet them with a full punch bowl,
soft background music.
Prizes for novelty dances can be anything sweet--a box of
candy, a box of cookies. Visit our blinking roses page for more decorations & favors.
Have a great party!
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| Choose Your Partner |
| Paul Jones - Props: A
whistle. Boys join hands and form a large circle. Girls form a smaller circle inside large
one. Hostess blows whistle, then music begins and boys circle to right; girls circle to
the left, until whistle blows again. Then music stops and boy takes girl nearest to him
for his partner for next dance.
Cinderella - Each girl removes one shoe and places
it in a pile in the center of the room. When music starts, each boy takes a shoe, finds
its owner, and dances with her.
Date Card - Props: prepare a card for each guest,
with as many numbered lines as there will be couple events during the evening. The cards
are distributed, and boys are told to write a different girl's name on each line, and to
have her enter his name on the corresponding space on her card. When partners are needed,
the number to be used is announced and the guests are requested to find the person whose
name is written opposite this number on their card.
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| Novelty Dances |
| Dancing Chairs (like musical
chairs) - Props: Music for dancing. Chairs--two less than number of players--placed about
dance floor in pairs. Pair off players in couples. Then they rush toward chairs and sit.
The couple left standing is eliminated. (There is one rule: Couples must stay together.
Only when both reach the chairs may they sit).Game continues, with two chairs taken
away and one couple eliminated, every time music starts.
Wallflower Waltz (or Snowball) - Get one couple to
start dancing. When music stops, the partners separate, go where guests are congregated,
and each takes a new partner. (Make it a rule that any person who refuses the invitation
to dance must pay a forfeit.) When original couple has danced awhile with their new
partners, stop music. All separate again, and find other partners; soon all will be
dancing.
Follow-the-Leader - Couples line up behind a lead
couple. Whatever the lead couple does, rest must duplicate. Here are three suggestions:
Form a conga line, and zigzag back and forth. Stand side-by-side and skate across the
floor, accompanied by music. Two couples form a circle, locking arms, then dance.
Fortune Dance - Props:
Balloon Drop,
Slips of paper with different fortunes written on them. ("You will be lucky in
love," "You will be wealthy and wise," etc. And on some say "Lucky you
wins a prize.") In each balloon (enough for all), insert one of the slips, then blow
it up and tie it. Release balloons during a dance. Let guests do what comes
naturally---break the balloons. Guest who get the "Lucky you wins a prize"
fortune, gets a prize.
Lucky Spot Dance - Props: Pencil & piece of
paper. At the beginning of the dance, the hostess decides on a spot on the floor which
will be "lucky" and notes same on a slip of paper. When dance ends, everyone
holds their position. The hostess reveals the lucky spot by reading it from the slip of
paper. The couple or individual standing on or nearest to the lucky spot wins a prize.
(For large group choose several lucky spots.)
Extra Boy or Girl Dance - Have couples start
dancing. Blindfold extra guest and let him/her grope for a partner. Whichever couple
he/she touches, he/she may cut in on. The one who had been dancing is next to be
blindfolded.
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